Phase IV: Reflection Secrets To Getting Your Wife To Want To Have Sex with You All The Time
Reflection phase comes after a woman has achieved orgasm or multiple orgasms. Actually, throughout this phase, her body is trying to cool off and going back to her normal, un-aroused state.
Her breast size, clitoris, inner and outer lips resume normal size, and the reddish “sex flush” is beginning to go away…this is Resolution.
Mentally she’s getting back to her normal mindset…but…it’s in her thoughts where you “seal the deal” and assure that she’ll be needing more of you later on.
A lot of men get so distracted by the performance report on how many times (and how hard) she ejaculated that they oversee probably the most crucial phase of a woman’s sexual reaction – Reflection.
Women need and require it. And those men who fully grasp this benefit from it, have realized a secret that we discussed earlier.
The enjoyment and fulfillment during one sexual encounter doesn’t just end after the point of orgasm. Smart lovers realize that it can be ongoing on and cause the seduction phase of your NEXT intimate encounter.
If, throughout the period after sex, she didn’t seem to get pleasure and satisfaction, she may not even wish to provide you with the chance for a “rematch”…in other words, if the sex wasn’t great for her both bodily and psychologically, she won’t want to have sex next time around or may treat sex as a routine thing, not a pleasure thing. That is one reason why there are many women in married relationships nsatisfied with their sex lives. The sex is just too monotonous and does not provide physical and emotional satisfaction.
The best time for a man to show how considerate, compassionate, intimate or romantic he is, is after he has ejaculated. A selfish lover is one who goes to sleep very fast after an orgasm.
After Play
Would you like your lover to fall madly and completely in love with you ?
Then don’t cut corners in the matter of what you do AFTER sex!
To a woman, what you do after sex really shows her what you’re all about.
The small things show her the signs as to what type of person you are.
Make an effort for a little “after play” and appreciate your after-glow. You’d be blown away what an additional ten minutes can achieve, so don’t take this as a given.
So, prepare yourself to cuddle up, present a few kisses and invest a bit of time talking, smiling and being in contact with her.
This lets you stay “connected” and reinforce the psychological ties contributing to a wholesome relationship -sexual, emotional and otherwise.
Making use of this, and providing her the interest and consideration and respect she deserves ensures that you’ll make her desire (and want to give) more sex.
Merely snuggling, talking, and “being” with her bodily and emotionally after love making along with the fact that she thinks you caused her orgasms is similar to making little deposits in the “Desire” account.
The higher quality sexual experience she has and feels about will develop more aspiration to be with you next time.
